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Don't be so hard on yourself. Dati akong active sa church, and I felt that too wala akong kaclose, pati yung life group leader namin medyo may distance kami sa isa't isa. Ang ginawa ko lang nung mga panahon na yun, tinuloy ko lang pagiging tahimik ko, tapos kahit tapos na yung time ng pagchu-church I'll stay, inienjoy ko lang yung mga oras na andun ako and one day may kumausap sakin, isang beses nagtanong lang, at nung nag Encounter ako nakasabay ko sya dun, tapos may mga kaibigan din sya na pinakilala sakin. Pero di na ako active ngayon kaya may distance na ulit. Pero sana makatulong
O nandito ka din? Ang active ah. :sneaky:
 
kudos to all introverts heads up ako nagseserve din ako sa simbahan i found myself there because theres a lot of people in this world someone will understand you the others will not if they dont want to make friends with you then let them go the day will past and someone will reach out to you and they will appreciate who you really are you dont need to change for someone Godbess.
Thanks for this! God bless you, too!
 
Kung feeling mo na iniisip nila maldita ka then maybe ganun mo din nakikita yung sarili mo at yun ang napproject mo. Start ka lang sa mga common senyo ng workmates mo, like ranting sa boss or load nyo. Small talk ka din, offer kofi and stuff. And always acknowledge them.. simpleng hi and hello at mga good mornings eh would go along way..important thing is genuine ung dating.. and tlagang wala at ayaw magclick then wag na ipilit.. you cannot force a connection if its not there. Mas natural mas madali.. wag mo lage ioverthink at worry kung ano iniisip nila sayo or wat.... Kung un ka eh di un... Hirap kasi pagifafake ung connection... Akward pag may dead air... Hehehe
As much as possible, I don't want to create fake connections naman. It's just that I really need those people for my job since they're the ones who handle the clients hehehe. But yes, I do say hi/hello naman every time! :)
 
Well, ang mga introvert kasi they are socially selective :) and mahirap magbuild ng trust sa kanila. Mahilig sila magbuild ng wall everytime na may nag aattempt na pumasok sa nilagay nilang linya :D If you're a reader, I recommend you to read the "4 temperaments". I think, you're a Melancholic person 😁 kaya ganyan ang dating sayo everytime na iniinvolve mo ang self mo sa public or sa tao
Wow, interesting. I'll check this out. Thank you!
 
Nahihirapan ako makipagfriends sa mga workmates ko, even sa worshipmates ko. Di naman ako super tahimik. Kinakausap ko din naman sila pero nahihirapan lang talaga ako gumawa ng ‘friendly’ connection. Nakikipagtawanan din naman ako minsan, pero nararamdaman ko yung distance ko sa mga tao. Feeling ko iniisip nilang maldita ako. ☹
andito kami pero dimolang na pansin :p
 
As much as possible, I don't want to create fake connections naman. It's just that I really need those people for my job since they're the ones who handle the clients hehehe. But yes, I do say hi/hello naman every time! :)
Whats ur work btw, if u dont mind me asking?
Pero if the job requires it then okay lang na ifake mo...but if jan mabubuhos ang effort mo para makakuha ng clients then perhaps switch career?? Hehe
 
Whats ur work btw, if u dont mind me asking?
Pero if the job requires it then okay lang na ifake mo...but if jan mabubuhos ang effort mo para makakuha ng clients then perhaps switch career?? Hehe
Tech presales engr. :giggle:
Quota lang naman habol ko kaya need ko sila i-befriend hahaha.
Also, switching careers is not an option! I love my job although it's hard to mingle with people. Pero sole purpose ko naman to work is to learn and earn. 😂
 
Tech presales engr. :giggle:
Quota lang naman habol ko kaya need ko sila i-befriend hahaha.
Also, switching careers is not an option! I love my job although it's hard to mingle with people. Pero sole purpose ko naman to work is to learn and earn. 😂
Oooh...ang fancy...hahahaha

Pero keyword jan is the "sales" part...jan kasi required social skills mo...mingling is a big part of that..pero if yan tlaga want mo na career then just always focus on ur target...yai ng awkward and stuff.. eventually magiging routine na lang yan for you ..

Outside work wat do u usually do?? Bka nman tlagang di mo kajive mga workmates mo kasi lalau age nyo. Hahaha
 
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