Need some opinion po

[PHC - MON4RCH]

Need ko po some advices or suggestions ukol dito. College na po ako then I've never been into relationships before kasi focus sa acads then suddenly this year I was enchanted with this woman (of course classmate) na meron the same taste as mine specially sa arts. We already both confessed about having an admiration to each other then at some point, I realized "Baka this is it hahahah" pero my inner self justified to think about "responsibilities" if ever mag pu-pursue ako to her. Ito palagi kong iniisip yung responsibilities sa pag sustain about relationships which literally, di ko pa alam kung kaya ko ba or hindi. Pero, at some point, yung eagerness ko to have her is something I always thought to happen. Still worth it po ba to pursue this kind of situation? Or I just need to think practically about what should be the best?

 

[Kaplok Kaplok]

Obviously, mas priority tlga dito ang pag aaral diba? Ideally gusto mo pagsabayin.

Its not the good times ang magiging problema. Baka hnd mo din kasi pa na fafactor in ung negative emotions along the way.

Ex. How would you handle kung nagkatampuhan kayo. Or kasing simple lng na hnd siya nagresponse sa chat mo.

Constantly kasi yan, although its not her intention, mag aagaw ung attention mo sa pag aaral at sakanya. Guaranteed yan.

Gaano kaclose sa parents mo? Isang malaking factor din yan, dahil sila makakatulong sayo sa emotions mo if ever. But, If this is something na kailangan mo itago sakanila, i advise you wag nlng ipursue.

Kung close k nmn sakanila, just ask them for second opinion.

Ang sakin lng, you dont have to make this girl commit to you just to enjoy her company. Mas i checherish mo ung time na kusang nangyari kaysa ung ginawa nyo lng out of commitment.

 

[PHC-Wenz]

agreee ako sa advice ni sir ts.

tama lahat advice.

enjoy ur company, darating din kau dyan.

cherish mu ung time na friends kau, yun
kc ang mas maging maganda maalala nyo.

 

[PHC - MON4RCH]

Obviously, mas priority tlga dito ang pag aaral diba? Ideally gusto mo pagsabayin.

Its not the good times ang magiging problema. Baka hnd mo din kasi pa na fafactor in ung negative emotions along the way.

Ex. How would you handle kung nagkatampuhan kayo. Or kasing simple lng na hnd siya nagresponse sa chat mo.

Constantly kasi yan, although its not her intention, mag aagaw ung attention mo sa pag aaral at sakanya. Guaranteed yan.

Gaano kaclose sa parents mo? Isang malaking factor din yan, dahil sila makakatulong sayo sa emotions mo if ever. But, If this is something na kailangan mo itago sakanila, i advise you wag nlng ipursue.

Kung close k nmn sakanila, just ask them for second opinion.

Ang sakin lng, you dont have to make this girl commit to you just to enjoy her company. Mas i checherish mo ung time na kusang nangyari kaysa ung ginawa nyo lng out of commitment.

Exactly po, when it comes to my family... hindi po kami gaanong nag oopen up sa isat isa kaya nahihiya talaga ako sa ganitong bagay. Alam ko naman din kung ano isasagot ng parents ko pag nag share ako sa kanila nito hahaha.. "uunahin mo lagi pag aaral mo", that kind of perspective pero I always respect them. Anyways, maraming salamat po kahit ganitong simpleng enlightenment lang worth it talaga

agreee ako sa advice ni sir ts.

tama lahat advice.

enjoy ur company, darating din kau dyan.

cherish mu ung time na friends kau, yun
kc ang mas maging maganda maalala nyo.

Yup, darating talaga ng kusa if ever itinadhana satin.

 

[Diana mercado]

Wla ding kwenta yang "cherish your moment" pag naagaw bigla or nagkagusto sa iba

 

[Kaplok Kaplok]

Wla ding kwenta yang "cherish your moment" pag naagaw bigla or nagkagusto sa iba

In theory tama ka. Pero in reality kahit lagyan mo ng label, mawawala padin sayo. No such thing as "naagaw" kung hindi mo naman inangkin in the first place.
But moments you cherish, sayo lang yon.

 

[Diana mercado]

In theory tama ka. Pero in reality kahit lagyan mo ng label, mawawala padin sayo. No such thing as "naagaw" kung hindi mo naman inangkin in the first place.
But moments you cherish, sayo lang yon.

May mga cases din kasi na kunwari mag m.u kayo tapos bigla mo nalng malalaman na nagka jowa ng iba. Hindi mo alam pinagsabay lng pala kayo tapos pinili nya na yung isa.

 

[Kaplok Kaplok]

May mga cases din kasi na kunwari mag m.u kayo tapos bigla mo nalng malalaman na nagka jowa ng iba. Hindi mo alam pinagsabay lng pala kayo tapos pinili nya na yung isa.

Naranasan ko din yan. Sakit nga nung una e. Madami pa nga ako npagdaanan may label at wala. Nung huli masakit padin. Kaya ko nga nasasabi na may label or wala parehas lang. Pag dating ko sa pinaka eventual partner ko, bawat isa nila sa past ko bahagi ng emotional maturity ko. Hindi ko masasabing wala silang kwenta.

Warning: Emotional maturity can grant you attractiveness you never imagined you'd have. Don't abuse it.