How to move on faster!

[Jay01272001]

We're on a 3 + years relationship na. And last week sinabi niya na di niya na daw kaya ang ldr na setup. We started 2nd year in college and ldr kami due to COVID but noong 3rd and 4th year namin magkasama kami araw-araw due na same kami ng UNIV. Ngayong graduate na kami, may both job na kami but sa manila siya nakabse while ako sa cagayan. Her reason is pagod na daw siya magupdate araw araw because nastuck kami sa same routine due to ldr and may full time work kami. I don't want to think na may other reasons other than fall out of love so please wag ng ireiterate sa comments. My reaction naman nung nagopen up siya is, I ask if magiging masaya siya na if she is on her own nalang but sabi niya di niya alam. So i said na i give her space till feb 13 because 14 is valentines and 15 ang monthsary namin then tell me if anong decision niya. This is the 2nd day of that agreement and i can see in the future that we will be apart, already collecting our past memories for a closure gift. Any tips for moving on faster when that happens. I really commit when i am in a relationship and this is my second gf palang. My first gf is 10 months long lang so i'm kinda new to this long term relationship. Any tips would be great and im giving her the benefit of the doubt of her reasons because i respect her very much.


Thank you!!!

 

[yahj2]

Explore things that you can't imagine like, mag travel ka .. may mga joiner yung mga travel and tour baka andoon yung para sayo.. based sa experience ko pag sa LDR, when someone na nag cocomforn na sa GF mo dun sya na fafall dun na nag sstart na magkalabuan na kayo.. based lang sya sa experience ko ha.. not all girls are the same .. kung gusto mo naman ma isurvive pa, try to think a different way para hindi kayo maboring.. travel kayong dalawa yung mga hindi nyo pa napupuntahan, gawa ng travel list pag usapan nyo yung buhay nyo .. nakakasawa talaga pag iisang routine nalng kayo

 

[Dapsone]

Pag usapan niyo yan sa PERSONAL as in face to face, nasasabi niyo lang yung masasakit na salita when it comes to long communication. Pero pagdating sa punto na magkita kayo parang ayaw niyo magbitaw ng masakit na salita.

 

[Jay01272001]

Explore things that you can't imagine like, mag travel ka .. may mga joiner yung mga travel and tour baka andoon yung para sayo.. based sa experience ko pag sa LDR, when someone na nag cocomforn na sa GF mo dun sya na fafall dun na nag sstart na magkalabuan na kayo.. based lang sya sa experience ko ha.. not all girls are the same .. kung gusto mo naman ma isurvive pa, try to think a different way para hindi kayo maboring.. travel kayong dalawa yung mga hindi nyo pa napupuntahan, gawa ng travel list pag usapan nyo yung buhay nyo .. nakakasawa talaga pag iisang routine nalng kayo

as much as gusto ko ganito. We're not capable pa financially. That would be our plan soon sana. Fresh graduate kasi kami and you know in the Philippines, swerte nalang kapag above minimum wage first job.

Pag usapan niyo yan sa PERSONAL as in face to face, nasasabi niyo lang yung masasakit na salita when it comes to long communication. Pero pagdating sa punto na magkita kayo parang ayaw niyo magbitaw ng masakit na salita.

400 km away kami unfortunately sa ngayon. Were on the same setup noong naguumpisa palang kami. She said gusto nalang daw niya magwork and magrest without updating someone.

 

[GraySilv]

First, try to accept the fact na possible na talaga kayong magdrift apart. Dun ka mag start, accept the pain and yung mga sad moments na mafefeel mo. Accept it.
Pero try nyo pa ring pag usapan ng maigi. If kaya mo sana ay puntahan mo TS this coming long weekend para mag usap kayo. Sa totoo lang kasi mahirap talaga LDR. Dapat nag memeet kayo kahit once a month lang eh. Masama rin yung sobrang pag kamiss hahaah nakakainit ng ulo or mas lumalala misunderstanding.
If hindi na talaga kaya, focus your energy more sa ikabubuti mo. Learn new skills, explore more sa area nyo or nearby areas, be open for more opportunities. Mag pakabusy ka sa mga mag makakabuti sayong bagay.

 

[Dapsone]

as much as gusto ko ganito. We're not capable pa financially. That would be our plan soon sana. Fresh graduate kasi kami and you know in the Philippines, swerte nalang kapag above minimum wage first job.


400 km away kami unfortunately sa ngayon. Were on the same setup noong naguumpisa palang kami. She said gusto nalang daw niya magwork and magrest without updating someone.

Okay goods yan, just give her space and time. mahal ka parin niya pero kailangan niya lang muna mapag isa. Just let her be.

 

[ZummerSoltice]

Masakit talaga yan sa simula basta gawino nalang yung mga gusto mo sa buhay makakalimutan mo din yan.

 

[lhordaeron]

Bigyan mo muna ng space para makapag isip isip sya. Then kung kaya mo magset ng quality time with her, go. May time na ganyan talaga. Baka stress sya sa work?

 

[Nikola_Tesla]

Saludo ako sayo Kuya Jay, same Tayo mag provide Ng love bigay Ng space and total acceptance kase mahal naten, although yes masakit pero God says Love never fails, so if it fails alam nyo na. Sguro malaking factor din ung values nyo sa relationship kung may same God and same Prayers kayo boss God will make a way sguro, hayaan mo boss isasama kita sa prayers ko, pero saludo tgla ako parehong pareho sa ginawa ko, over 4 months na Nung Feb 2 Nung official closure/break up nmen oo mejo masakit padin pero alam Kong magiging okay nako eh onti nlang, Godbless sayo boss , if God takes a way things that you've never imagined losing he will also bring something back that you've never expect.

 

[Frankyoe]

as much as gusto ko ganito. We're not capable pa financially. That would be our plan soon sana. Fresh graduate kasi kami and you know in the Philippines, swerte nalang kapag above minimum wage first job.


400 km away kami unfortunately sa ngayon. Were on the same setup noong naguumpisa palang kami. She said gusto nalang daw niya magwork and magrest without updating someone.Mp

Paps kahit 400km pa yan, it’s now or never.