Tutorial How to Give an Effective Apology: "The Do's and Don'ts of Saying You're Sorry"

[Professora Akira]

State what you did wrong​

State your Offense and acknowledge your wrong doings.To do this, you must see things from the aggrieved person’s point of view and recognize the pain that you caused them

Own it​

It involves taking responsibility for your transgression and offering insight into why you behaved badly.Take your time to explain everything precisely.Owning misdeed fix most relationships.

Don't engage in "kitchen sinking"​

Yes,we all know its hard to apologize but then we should avoid bringing up everything that person has ever done to cause you hurt.Avoid escalating minor conflicts into a huge ordeal by recalling countless times.

Apologize in person, not in writing​

Verbal apology is more powerful than just writing those words.It is much nice to see how sincere they are by their facial expressions.

Don't add "but" at the end​

The most sincere and beautifully articulated apology can be sabotaged with one simple three-letter word: "but."It's just another way of excusing yourself,avoid using unthoughtless" but".

Ask for forgiveness​

This empowers the other person for giving them time to speak up and respond whether or not they'r absolved you.








excerpt from Paired

 

[zeroith]

noted Prof..
eh pano pag mataas ihi nya?

 

[Professora Akira]

noted Prof..
eh pano pag mataas ihi nya?

the important thing is you've done your part

 

[Lelouch Lamperouge]

MAkulimlim na hapon po prof,, may konting mispelled lang po sa writing hehe.. but overall ,, pasado ka na hhhhhh

noted Prof..
eh pano pag mataas ihi nya?

Mag baon ka po ng arinola aahahaha joke

 

[Professora Akira]

MAkulimlim na hapon po prof,, may konting mispelled lang po sa writing hehe.. but overall ,, pasado ka na hhhhhh


Mag baon ka po ng arinola aahahaha joke

hahaha makulimlim talaga,salamat sa checking ang hirap minsan pag sa phone magtype haha

 

[Lelouch Lamperouge]

hahaha makulimlim talaga,salamat sa checking ang hirap minsan pag sa phone magtype haha

Hahaa mamaya after kong ma reformat laptop ko balik ako don hahahha..

 

[Professora Akira]

Hahaa mamaya after kong ma reformat laptop ko balik ako don hahahha..

kainis nga minsan yung may ginagawa kang thread on the spot mo etatype pero di pa tapos mapress mo bigla yung post button

 

[Dismal]

Salamat sa mga tips na ito tungkol sa tamang paraan ng paghingi ng paumanhin

 

[Bold]

Pag ayaw na eh wala na talaga

 

[Professora Akira]

Pag ayaw na eh wala na talaga

depinde,baka pwedi pa

 

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[NOUGHT]

thanks prof akira

 

[Professora Akira]

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thank you ,I appreciate it

thanks prof akira

welcome po

 

[Dismal]

thank you ,I appreciate it


welcome po

Thank you very much.

 

[Inuieki]

kahit ginawa muna ang part mo depende parin yan sa tao kung patatawarin ka nya

 

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[Dismal]

I say I'm sorry way too much I know.
Afraid that's just a way with me.
Sorry that who I am apologies for who you see

Sorry, I can't just put the word away,
It comes with so much ease.
Sorry that sometimes sorry is all I say
Sorry always finds its way.

The word escapes my tongue.
Sorry is first in line.
Behind my tongue are more words
But they're trapped in my mind.

A jumbled mess of proper words
But sorry is all chime.
In time I hope I'll put the word to rest
have it suppressed, condensed, instead
Saying it all the time, not expressing my mind

Sorry that this word is what I choose
To use, to recuse what I want to say.
Sorry leaps from my lips before
Any other words find their way.

Dismayed, my body concaves, ashamed
That's all I allow myself to convey
Unchanged, your patience
I choose to wait.

No demand to ask or understand
Why sorry is my mouth’s only phrase.
Encased in love and trust,
I see, you know what I'd like to say.

Reassured, inside, behind the mess
Of a broken past, sorry is silenced and put away.

CTTO

 

[Professora Akira]

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please avoid hiding post ,I'm not used to it sa mga threads ko unfair sa iba.