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State what you did wrong
State your Offense and acknowledge your wrong doings.To do this, you must see things from the aggrieved person’s point of view and recognize the pain that you caused themOwn it
It involves taking responsibility for your transgression and offering insight into why you behaved badly.Take your time to explain everything precisely.Owning misdeed fix most relationships.Don't engage in "kitchen sinking"
Yes,we all know its hard to apologize but then we should avoid bringing up everything that person has ever done to cause you hurt.Avoid escalating minor conflicts into a huge ordeal by recalling countless times.Apologize in person, not in writing
Verbal apology is more powerful than just writing those words.It is much nice to see how sincere they are by their facial expressions.Don't add "but" at the end
The most sincere and beautifully articulated apology can be sabotaged with one simple three-letter word: "but."It's just another way of excusing yourself,avoid using unthoughtless" but".Ask for forgiveness
This empowers the other person for giving them time to speak up and respond whether or not they'r absolved you.excerpt from Paired
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