Nakakabaliw na, help

[Quantum Supercomputer]

7months, my gf using silent treatment, nonstop tantrums to get what she want, after masuyo, saka s'ya magssorry sa silent treatment, which means she's aware.

It was torturing, destroying my mental health, mahal na mahal ko yun pero para na kong alila.

So, trinay kong ignorin yung silent treatment nya, better yet, blinock ko sya ng 24hrs, we can talk exactly this time tommorow kako sakanya, "and i love you", I assured her na babalikan ko sya.
And then guess what, instead na magreflect, I caught her messaging other guys sa ML na nagpapacomfort, and then minessage ko yung guy to confirm na sya yung kausap, na yung gf ko naginitiate ng convo.

Nung sinabi ko sa gf ko, binaliktad nya yung kwento ng guy, na sya raw nagmessage. (see attachment)


And I don't what to think na, mahal na mahal ko sya pero under 24hrs, ganito na kalala. Please advice.??

 

[faye422]

hirap ng ganyan. Nagsisinungaling pa better yet save yourself

 

[keough]

mahirap talaga yan ganyan ts masakit yan sa damdamin kaya wag mo ibuhos lahat sa gf mo mag tira ka sa sarili mo , madami babae dyan wag mo i focus pag ayaw, pag namatay ka mapapa litan ka nya din agd kaya mag tira ka ng pra sau gNyan lang yan.pakinggan mo lagi kanta ng exbatallion na " HAYAAN MO SILA"

 

[LordCED]

Palitan mo n plans at goal mo lods, mukang auto surrender na kagad e.

 

[Marshanz]

red flag gar , spoiled mo masyado , bounce ka na kagad sa ganyan eabab di ka bibigyan ng peace of mind nyan .

 

[_gHe]

Common ata yung ganyan,..
ganyan din GF ko before,..
but as of now is na change ko naman yung ganung attitude niya,..
if tumahimik ang babae and hindi aLam ng LaLaki kung bakit,
kuLitin mo kung bakit or ano yung reason,..
Common Ego kasi sa atin na kapag hindi natin naiintindihan yung isang simpLeng bagay eh
iignorin na Lang natin,..
just say sorry then ask her what's wrong,..
may mga babae kasing cLingy or masyadong emosyonaL,..
so dahiL tayo ung mas nakakaintindi sa bagay-bagay (hahahaha) tayo na Lang umunawa at
mag pasensya,..
bawaL mapagod,..

 

[PHC_LaCe12]

eto ba yung chinese?

 

[TheLesbianCollector]

Run.
Immature ang partner mo.
Aside from the fact that you're being taken for granted, manipulation ang tawag sa ginagawa niya.
You may want to reflect on those situations, baka may gaslighting na involved.
Marami pang iba diyan, respect yourself enough to find someone who can truly make you happy.

 

[C E S S]

Exactly my point ^
Props sa 'yo for trying to stand up for yourself by giving her a taste of her own medicine.
Intentionally minessage nya yung guy and aware syang mababasa mo yun just to mess with your head and see how you'd react.
Choose your mental health. Don't let her gaslight you into thinking otherwise. Know your worth. Kung alam mo na toxic 'yan, better to cut ties kesa ma-stuck ka sa ganyang cycle.

 

[Averaham]

Girls will always be girls... Hayyyys.. kaya kawawa talaga tayong mga lalaki sa ganyan eh

 

[the1121789]

Mahirap yung ganyan kasi kung may issues sya at naapektohan na well-being mo mas lalo pa na lumala yan in future. Hindi yan nagiimprove over night, I think it comes with age, experience, and self-reflection. Baka masyado pang maaga yung edad ng relationship nyo.