Hi, this may not be a business related topic but I thought this is the closest thread to ask this.
Si husband po ay nag iisa ng nandito sa Pilipinas. The rest ng family nya ay nasa Australia na. Most of them are residents na din dun, so technically yung property nila dito ay sya nalang ang tumitira. (Kaming family actually me my children & him). His grandmother said it's his property already since he's the only one left here. Now, there's no legality po na inherited yung property after she died. It's was just a verbal agreement between him and his grand mother.
But, bukod sa kanya is may mga anak at apo parin po si grandmother in Australia who are all there (some are residents & some are not yet) I know at some point they won't agree for my husband to take everything here. Especially the guys. We are planning to do renovations sa bahay which is iloloan ko po sa bank. My concerns are:
1. What if one of these days umapila yung mga tito/tita nya na nasa AU na kunin yung property at the time na renovated na, may laban pa rin po ba kami doon?
2. I am also considering to buy a lot on my own instead. But may bayarin pa po kaming sasakyan until 2028. Should we complete paying it first before buying lot na in a few years ay patatayuan na rin ng bahay?
3. If you are in my shoes, would you rather use your husband's inherited property to settle at or would you rather buy your own? (I mean considering the thoughts like what if we get separated? What if he dies? (KNOCK ON WOOD)) -- I'm not being selfish, but when I think of these, naisip ko saan ako pupulutin kung mangyari nga ito.
I hope you can give me some insights/opinions. If this may sound offensive to others, sorry in advance.
Si husband po ay nag iisa ng nandito sa Pilipinas. The rest ng family nya ay nasa Australia na. Most of them are residents na din dun, so technically yung property nila dito ay sya nalang ang tumitira. (Kaming family actually me my children & him). His grandmother said it's his property already since he's the only one left here. Now, there's no legality po na inherited yung property after she died. It's was just a verbal agreement between him and his grand mother.
But, bukod sa kanya is may mga anak at apo parin po si grandmother in Australia who are all there (some are residents & some are not yet) I know at some point they won't agree for my husband to take everything here. Especially the guys. We are planning to do renovations sa bahay which is iloloan ko po sa bank. My concerns are:
1. What if one of these days umapila yung mga tito/tita nya na nasa AU na kunin yung property at the time na renovated na, may laban pa rin po ba kami doon?
2. I am also considering to buy a lot on my own instead. But may bayarin pa po kaming sasakyan until 2028. Should we complete paying it first before buying lot na in a few years ay patatayuan na rin ng bahay?
3. If you are in my shoes, would you rather use your husband's inherited property to settle at or would you rather buy your own? (I mean considering the thoughts like what if we get separated? What if he dies? (KNOCK ON WOOD)) -- I'm not being selfish, but when I think of these, naisip ko saan ako pupulutin kung mangyari nga ito.
I hope you can give me some insights/opinions. If this may sound offensive to others, sorry in advance.