First of all, naranasan ko din itanong yang mga tanong na yan. I have always thought na dahil ito sa kawalan ko ng experience at saka ung pagiging passive sa panliligaw -kaya ako walang maisip na topic.(what I mean by passive ay yung tipong hindi manliligaw unless obvious na na sasagutin ka ni girl.)
Pero now, looking back, hindi ko kaya sagutin yung tanong na yan..... because it was the wrong question to begin with.
What I realized, kapag pumasok ka in a relationship with the following:
1) in the right state of mind kung ano ba ang pagrerelasyon, where it is not about impressing your peers, it is not about filling a void in your life;
2) the right kind person to be in a relationship with, someone who you can relate with their past and your current goals in a relationship.
3)And if you are honest with your intentions, meaning, you are not pretending to be someone else (gaya ng pagpapanggap na hindi ka interasado sa seggs.)
4) you allow each other to communicate for real, not just the topics that are deemed good and the expected responses na kasama nito. Yung tipong open kayo pagusapan lahat ng bagay out of legit interest to know each other.
If you have all these, then thinking of a topic is automatic. In fact hindi mo kailangan isipin. It will just come to you.