i still don't believe in infliction of pain as carrier of message to a child, kaya meron ako sariling parenting style, kapag nag deviate ang anak ang ginagawa ko is remove him/her from that environment instead of inflicting pain, kapag gumawa ng masama ang bata nagsimula pa lang iyan mag learn ng stupidity, and if you remove him/her from the learning environment (ang lugar kung saan siya nakaka learn ng stupidity) you have interrupted the learning process and eventually there will be no learning at all, ganyan lang ginagawa ko, walang palo whatsoever but i will control the learning environment my child is exposed to