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I just would like to give you an information so that everyone knows about the mythology associated as being a vlrgin in girls dahil long, long time na po na ganito pa rin ang ipinahahawakan ng mga tao. Hindi pa rin nila binibitawan.
Vlrginity is a religion-driven concept and it can only be found in patriarchal & heteronormative society. In traditional societies , women expected to be pure and without experience in seks while men expected to be sexual experienced. It is a reason why men called prestige kapag maraming siya babae na naka-seks and women called sl(u)th or wh0re kapag meron sexual experience to men po. When it comes to patriarchal societies po , yung angkan o lineage ay malaki ang "concern" ng mga tao lalo na meron tayo itinatawag na patriarchal clan where head of the family or the supreme authority is a male or a father po. And so this is a reason why they are the one controlling or meron ito motivation na maging sureball na kanila at kanila lang ang anak at hindi sa ibang lalake. That is what we called the "paternal law". So as a result, men are the one controlling the woman's body or the one giving law of kung ano dapat ang isang babae po.
It is a reason why babae ang mas affected pagdating sa lalake like naniniwala sila kapag according to men's knowledge na ang palantandaan kuno sa babaeng birhen ay meron dugo na lalabas at meron daw na wawarak na hymen , at keyso nalalaspag daw ang babae and many to mention.
It is a social construct kung saan women must be control by men to be sure na own po nila ang babae and panigurado na sa kanya at kanya lang ang anak. Kaya they put women bilang high expectation na women must have no sexual knowledge from men , need to be pure and must be vlrgin kapag marrying to a first husband but according to an expert from those people na meron knowledge in that field ng women's biological anatomy , people will not know if ang babae ay blrhen o hinde dahil ika nga , not all women are born with hymen yung tipong block ang hymen lahat na tipong ipinagmamalaki ng iba na basta blrhen ay meron dugo at meron na wawarak na hymen. Actually, it is a myth. It is because not all women bleed in first time seks. Literal na not all women bleed ika nga. Not all. Meron ibang hymen na sobrang nipis kaya hindi talaga siya nagbibleed.
The other situation to men is pressured because expected sa kanila na magkaroon ng sexual experience na its normal na to be promiscuous dahil men are performer in seks but some people can't see na dahil sa pressure from society na result why nag-eexist ang r@pe or why nagkakaroon ng sexual harassment from men to women though maraming dahilan kung bakit meron lalake na gumagawa niyan. Dagdag na it is also because women's sexuality is forbidden , taboo or evil na po siya.
So vlrginity is a social construct because it is a control. Control. Needs to be control and if we remember , diba , meron itinatawag na feminine sexual superiority. Dati. Ngayon. Hindi na. Malamang. Siyempre. Halos lahat kase ay control kung sino man nag cocontrol.
Hindi naman pwede sabihin like me sa libong tao na nakikinig at nagbabasa na women are superior in gender or whatever dahil keyso women are the one giving sexual knowledge to all humanity especially men because they are the one who will make babies sa lahat ng babae na meron womb na idinadala , e baka kinabukasan , patay ka na. Pina-chop-chop na ang lahat ng katawan at nangangamoy bangkay na siya.
Siyempre. Hindi siya norms. So it is your decision na if you want to be free, you can be free. Ika nga laws are meant to be broken if you know it's harmful na po. Laws are also not perfect.
Vlrginity is a religion-driven concept and it can only be found in patriarchal & heteronormative society. In traditional societies , women expected to be pure and without experience in seks while men expected to be sexual experienced. It is a reason why men called prestige kapag maraming siya babae na naka-seks and women called sl(u)th or wh0re kapag meron sexual experience to men po. When it comes to patriarchal societies po , yung angkan o lineage ay malaki ang "concern" ng mga tao lalo na meron tayo itinatawag na patriarchal clan where head of the family or the supreme authority is a male or a father po. And so this is a reason why they are the one controlling or meron ito motivation na maging sureball na kanila at kanila lang ang anak at hindi sa ibang lalake. That is what we called the "paternal law". So as a result, men are the one controlling the woman's body or the one giving law of kung ano dapat ang isang babae po.
It is a reason why babae ang mas affected pagdating sa lalake like naniniwala sila kapag according to men's knowledge na ang palantandaan kuno sa babaeng birhen ay meron dugo na lalabas at meron daw na wawarak na hymen , at keyso nalalaspag daw ang babae and many to mention.
It is a social construct kung saan women must be control by men to be sure na own po nila ang babae and panigurado na sa kanya at kanya lang ang anak. Kaya they put women bilang high expectation na women must have no sexual knowledge from men , need to be pure and must be vlrgin kapag marrying to a first husband but according to an expert from those people na meron knowledge in that field ng women's biological anatomy , people will not know if ang babae ay blrhen o hinde dahil ika nga , not all women are born with hymen yung tipong block ang hymen lahat na tipong ipinagmamalaki ng iba na basta blrhen ay meron dugo at meron na wawarak na hymen. Actually, it is a myth. It is because not all women bleed in first time seks. Literal na not all women bleed ika nga. Not all. Meron ibang hymen na sobrang nipis kaya hindi talaga siya nagbibleed.
The other situation to men is pressured because expected sa kanila na magkaroon ng sexual experience na its normal na to be promiscuous dahil men are performer in seks but some people can't see na dahil sa pressure from society na result why nag-eexist ang r@pe or why nagkakaroon ng sexual harassment from men to women though maraming dahilan kung bakit meron lalake na gumagawa niyan. Dagdag na it is also because women's sexuality is forbidden , taboo or evil na po siya.
So vlrginity is a social construct because it is a control. Control. Needs to be control and if we remember , diba , meron itinatawag na feminine sexual superiority. Dati. Ngayon. Hindi na. Malamang. Siyempre. Halos lahat kase ay control kung sino man nag cocontrol.
Hindi naman pwede sabihin like me sa libong tao na nakikinig at nagbabasa na women are superior in gender or whatever dahil keyso women are the one giving sexual knowledge to all humanity especially men because they are the one who will make babies sa lahat ng babae na meron womb na idinadala , e baka kinabukasan , patay ka na. Pina-chop-chop na ang lahat ng katawan at nangangamoy bangkay na siya.
Siyempre. Hindi siya norms. So it is your decision na if you want to be free, you can be free. Ika nga laws are meant to be broken if you know it's harmful na po. Laws are also not perfect.
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