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Help Di na ko masaya sa circle of friends ko, any advice?

Hi there! I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling unhappy with your current circle of friends. It's important to surround yourself with people who make you feel supported, understood, and happy. Here are some suggestions on what you can do:

1. Reflect on your feelings: Take some time to understand why you're not happy with your current circle of friends. Is it because of a lack of shared interests, feeling left out, or a general sense of disconnect? Identifying the root cause can help you determine the best course of action.

2. Communicate your feelings: It's important to express your concerns to your friends in a calm and honest manner. They may not be aware of how you're feeling, and open communication can lead to solutions or improvements in the friendship dynamic.

3. Seek new opportunities: Consider branching out and expanding your social circle. Join clubs, organizations, or social events where you can meet new people who share your interests and values. This can provide an opportunity to make new friends who are more aligned with your current needs.

4. Focus on quality over quantity: Instead of focusing on having a large circle of friends, prioritize quality connections. Cultivate deeper relationships with a few individuals who make you feel genuinely happy and supported. Remember, it's not about the number of friends you have, but the quality of those friendships.

5. Take care of yourself: Sometimes, taking a break and focusing on self-care can help shift your perspective. Engaging in activities that bring you joy, practicing self-reflection, or pursuing hobbies can boost your overall well-being and potentially attract like-minded individuals.

6. Consider seeking professional help: If you're struggling with your emotions or finding it difficult to navigate your social relationships, speaking to a therapist or counselor can provide you with valuable guidance and support.

Remember, it's okay to outgrow friendships or seek new connections. Surrounding yourself with people who genuinely make you happy and support your growth is essential for your overall well-being. Good luck, and I hope you find the happiness and fulfillment you deserve!
 
Been there kaibigan, just remember to always consider yourself's happiness at the end of the day. Walang masamang piliin natin ang ating mga sarili. Wag nating liitan ang ating mundo. Napakaraming bagay pa ang mas madidiskubre nating mas worth it sa oras at maiksi nating buhay. Pero 'wag din naman sana tayong makalimot sa mga naging parte ng ating nakaraan, masaya man ito o hindi. Cheers!
 
Been there kaibigan, just remember to always consider yourself's happiness at the end of the day. Walang masamang piliin natin ang ating mga sarili. Wag nating liitan ang ating mundo. Napakaraming bagay pa ang mas madidiskubre nating mas worth it sa oras at maiksi nating buhay. Pero 'wag din naman sana tayong makalimot sa mga naging parte ng ating nakaraan, masaya man ito o hindi. Cheers!
napakagandang advice kaibigan. Maraming salamat sa iyo!
 
Nangyari sakin yan noong college naipit kami sa away. Lunayo na talaga ako, masali pa ako sa katoxican nila. Valid naman yang feelings mo kaya may karapatan kang maglie low sa pakikipagkita sa kanila.
 

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