Closed I Want to Die—Can the Bible Help Me When I Have Suicidal Thoughts?

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The Bible’s answer
Yes! The Bible comes from “God, who comforts those who are downhearted.” (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) Although the Bible is not a mental-health textbook, it has helped many overcome suicidal thoughts. Its practical advice can help you too.

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What practical advice does the Bible give?

• ●Express your feelings.
  What the Bible says: “A true friend shows love at all times, and is a brother who is born for times of distress.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
  Meaning: We need the support of others when we have distressing thoughts.
  If you keep your feelings to yourself, you carry a burden that can become unbearable. But if you share your feelings, you may lessen their intensity and even gain a fresh perspective.
  
  Try this: Talk to someone today, perhaps a family member or a trusted friend. You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. You might also express yourself by writing down your feelings.
• ●Get professional help.
  What the Bible says: “Healthy people do not need a physician, but those who are ill do.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
  Meaning: We should seek medical help when we are ill.
  Suicidal thoughts may be a symptom of mental or emotional illness. Like physical sickness, this is nothing to be ashamed of. Mental and emotional illnesses can be treated.
  Try this: Seek help from a qualified physician as soon as possible.
• ●Remember that God cares.
  What the Bible says: “Five sparrows sell for two coins of small value, do they not? Yet not one of them is forgotten by God. . . . Have no fear; you are worth more than many sparrows.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
  Meaning: You are precious to God.
  You may feel all alone, but God sees what you are going through. He cares about you—even if you have lost your will to live. “A heart broken and crushed, O God, you will not reject,” says You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.. God wants you to live because he loves you.
  Try this: Examine evidence from the Bible that God loves you. For example, see You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. of the Bible study aid Draw Close to Jehovah.
• ●Pray to God.
  What the Bible says: “Throw all your anxiety on [God], because he cares for you.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
  Meaning: God invites you to tell him openly and honestly about whatever weighs on your mind.
  God can give you both inner peace and the strength to keep going. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) In this way, he sustains those who call out to him with a sincere heart.—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
  
  Try this: Pray to God today. Use his name, You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now., and tell him about your feelings. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) Ask him to help you keep going.
• ●Meditate on the Bible’s hope for the future.
  What the Bible says: “We have this hope as an anchor for our lives, both sure and firm.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now., footnote.
  Meaning: Your emotions may go up and down like a ship in a storm, but the hope held out by the Bible can stabilize you.
  That hope is not wishful thinking but is based on God’s promise to remove the causes of our pain.—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
  Try this: Learn more about the Bible’s hope by reading You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. of the brochure Good News From God!
• ●Do something you enjoy.
  What the Bible says: “A joyful heart is good medicine.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
  Meaning: When we do things that bring us joy, we may improve our mental or emotional well-being.
  
  Try this: Do something that you normally enjoy. For example, listen to uplifting music, read something encouraging, or pursue a hobby. You will also increase your happiness if you do something to help others, even in small ways.—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
• ●Take care of your physical health.
  What the Bible says: “Physical training is beneficial.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
  Meaning: We benefit when we exercise, get adequate sleep, and eat healthful food.
  Try this: Go for a brisk walk, even for just 15 minutes.
• ●Remember that feelings and other things in life change.
  What the Bible says: “You do not know what your life will be like tomorrow.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
  Meaning: A distressing problem—even one that seems beyond your control—may well be temporary.
  No matter how bleak your situation seems today, it can change tomorrow. So look for ways to cope. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) Your distressing situation will likely change in time, but you cannot undo suicide.
  Try this: Read Bible accounts about people who felt so discouraged that they wanted to die, and see how their life eventually changed for the better—often in ways that they could not have foreseen. Consider some examples.

Does the Bible tell us about people who wanted to die?
Yes. The Bible tells us about some who said, in effect, “I want to die.” God did not rebuke them, but offered them help. He can do the same for you.
Elijah

• ●Who was he? Elijah was a brave prophet. But he was not immune to discouragement. “Elijah was a man with feelings like ours,” says You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
• ●Why did he want to die? At one point, Elijah felt alone, afraid, and worthless. So he begged: “Jehovah, take my life away.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
• ●What helped him? Elijah poured out his feelings to God. How did God encourage him? God showed him concern and gave him a demonstration of His power. He also assured Elijah that he was still needed and gave Elijah a caring and capable assistant.
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Job

• ●Who was he? Job was a wealthy family man who faithfully worshipped the true God.
• ●Why did he want to die? Job’s life took a major turn for the worse. He lost all his possessions. All of his children died in a disaster. He got an agonizing disease. And finally, he was cruelly and falsely accused of causing his own problems. Job said: “I loathe my life; I do not want to go on living.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
• ●What helped him? Job prayed to God and talked to others. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) He was encouraged by a compassionate friend, Elihu, who helped him put his situation in perspective. Above all, Job welcomed God’s counsel and help.
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Moses

• ●Who was he? Moses was a leader of ancient Israel and a faithful prophet.
• ●Why did he want to die? Moses had a huge workload, was constantly criticized, and felt worn out. So he cried out to God: “Please kill me right now.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
• ●What helped him? Moses told God how he felt. God helped Moses lighten his workload to alleviate the stress.
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Which Bible verses can help you resist suicidal thoughts?
Verses that show God cares about you:

• “Jehovah is close to the brokenhearted; he saves those who are crushed in spirit.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
• “When anxieties overwhelmed me, you comforted and soothed me.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
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Verses that show God understands your pain:

• “You have seen my affliction; you are aware of my deep distress.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
• “During all their distress it was distressing to him. . . . In his love and compassion . . . , he lifted them up.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..

Verses that show God wants you to draw close to him and pour out your heart in prayer:

• “Do not be anxious over anything, but in everything by prayer . . . let your petitions be made known to God; and the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your mental powers.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
• “Draw close to God, and he will draw close to you.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
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Verses that show God can give you strength:

• “For all things I have the strength through the one who gives me power.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
• “Do not be afraid, for I am with you. Do not be anxious, for I am your God. I will fortify you, yes, I will help you.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
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What if a friend says, “I want to die”?

• Take any mention of suicidal thoughts seriously. Encourage your friend to talk; draw him or her out. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) When people talk about their thoughts of suicide, they may be less likely to carry out the act.
• Listen empathetically. “Be quick to listen, slow to speak.” (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) Understand that anguish or depression can drive a person to say things that are “wild talk.” (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) So if a friend says something thoughtless or unkind, don’t overreact and take offense.
• Speak consolingly. The Bible advises us: “Speak consolingly to those who are depressed.” (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) Do not minimize your friend’s feelings. Acknowledge his feelings and the reasons for them. Tell your friend how much he means to you.
• Urge your friend to get help. “Wisdom belongs to those who seek advice,” says You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.. If your friend had a serious physical illness, you would encourage him to see a doctor. Suicidal thoughts can be a symptom of mental or emotional illness, so urge him to seek professional help. Even offer to go with him.
• Show love. The Bible says: “A true friend shows love at all times, and is a brother who is born for times of distress.” (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) You cannot erase your friend’s problems or suicidal thoughts. But by confirming your love for him and your support, you may help him through another day—and his next day may look brighter.

What if I have attempted suicide in the past?
Understandably, you may have feelings of guilt or shame. You may also feel that no one understands what led you to attempt suicide or the emotional anguish you may now be living with.
The Bible acknowledges that we cannot fully understand what others feel. “The heart knows its own bitterness,” says the Bible. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) So while loved ones can offer a measure of comfort, they are somewhat limited. Be assured, however, that you are not alone.
God knows the human heart. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) Jehovah knows what may have led you to feel that suicide was the only way out. He also understands your present feelings, which, as mentioned, may include guilt or shame.—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
While God highly values life, he is willing to forgive those who have had suicidal thoughts. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) He knows that many who attempt suicide do not want to die—they just want to end their pain. So Jehovah can help, even if “our hearts may condemn us . . . , because God is greater than our hearts and knows all things.” (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) Yes, for you he wants to be “the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort.”—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..

 

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Thank you for sharing bro