Etiquette is all about how to conduct yourself beautifully.
Unfortunately, many people consider respect for the rules of etiquette as something shameful, considering it a feature of classy aesthetes who are removed from real life.
In fact, the basic rules of etiquette are pretty simple. It’s a culture of speech, common courtesy, neat appearance, and control over your emotions.
Here is my collection of basic etiquettes which every self-respecting person should know...
· If you say, ’I invite you,’ that means you pay. You may say, ’Let’s go to a restaurant,’ and in this case, everyone pays for themselves. If a man offers to pay for a woman, she can agree.
· Never pay a visit without a calling first. If someone came to see you without warning, you might be wearing a bathrobe and hair curlers! One lady liked to say that when uninvited guests showed up on her doorstep, she always put shoes on, and grabbed an umbrella. If she liked the person, she exclaimed, ’I just got home!’ If not, she sighed and said, ’Ah, what a pity, I was just on my way out.’
· Don’t put your phone on the table in public. By doing so, you show how important a role this device plays in your life, how bored you are of what’s happening, and that at any moment you’re ready to stop a useless conversation and once again check your Instagram feed, answer an important call, or try new levels in Angry Birds.
· Don’t invite a girl on a date if you’re going to be texting all the evening.
· A woman must learn to be quiet at times in the presence of two or more men talking.
There is a thin line between friendly and flirtatious.
· A man never carries a woman’s handbag. However, he can take her shopping bags,umbrella,coat or jacket.
· If you’re walking along with someone and your companion greets a person you don’t know, you should also greet them.
· Groom yourself before meeting people. Take a bath and brush your teeth. You don't have to be a rich person to look gleaming-clean.
· Then learn the art of introduction.
· Avoid meaningless talk on the phone. If you need someone to talk to, it’s better to meet with them in person.
· If someone offends you, you shouldn’t return the favor or raise your voice to the person who insulted you. Don’t sink to their level. Just smile and leave the ill-mannered company.
· A man should always walk on a woman’s left-hand side. Military men are the only exception, because they should be ready to salute.
· Drivers should remember that puddle-splashing of passers-by is an amoral behavior.
· Nine things should be kept secret: age, wealth, family quarrels, religion, medical problems, love affairs, gifts, honor, and disgrace.
· In the cinema, theatre, or concert hall, you should move to your seat facing those sitting. A man goes first.
· A man should never touch a woman without her permission. This means that it is unacceptable to: hold her hand, touch her during a conversation, and push her or take her hand above the elbow (unless a man is helping her to get into or out of a car, or cross the street).
· If someone calls to you rudely (’You there!’), you shouldn’t answer. Be a model of good etiquette and polite social manners.
· The golden rule when using perfume is moderation. If you can still smell your perfume in the evening, everyone else is already tired of it.
· A well-bred man will always show proper respect to a woman.
· In a woman’s presence, men may only smoke with her permission.
· Whoever you are — a company director, an academician, an elderly woman, or a student — when you enter a room you should be the first person to greet everyone there.
· Respect the privacy of correspondence. Parents shouldn’t read their children’s letters. Couples should show the same respect for each other. Сhecking someone’s pockets in search of love notes, letters, and other things is extremely rude.
· Don’t try to chase fashion. It’s better to wear nice, even if not fashionable, things than look awful in a brand-new get up you know nothing about.
· If you’re forgiven after you’ve apologized, don’t touch the offensive subject again just to say you’re sorry. You should try to avoid such mistakes in the future.
· Avoid laughing and talking too loudly, as well as staring at people — it’s insulting.
· Don’t forget to thank your loved ones, relatives, and friends. They help you not because they have to. It’s their desire. Appreciate them.
· Learn and practise your table manners daily.
· Be a good guest.
Finally...
· Exit a job with a decent protocol.
Whether you’re terminated, downsized or leave on your own accord, there are many ways to ensure a graceful exit and to employ proper protocol when leaving your present position.
Regardless of the circumstances, these measures will not only keep your reputation intact but they can also help you chart a polished and professional exit strategy.
Be honest about why you are leaving. If you need a change, a more positive work environment, an increase in salary or you simply need a new career challenge, be honest about why you are leaving. If your company gives exit interviews, you can also offer feedback on ways to enhance working conditions.
Keep it positive. Think of the good things you have done for the company and what you have learned from them. Stay positive about your departure and don’t whine or complain about your boss or co-workers because you never know when a former colleague may be in a position to help or hinder your career in the future.
Give good notice. Although a two weeks' notice is the accepted standard when leaving a job, be sensitive about the timing of your transition. Could you stay longer to assist in training your replacement? Will you leave the company in a bind? You can also help your employer with the transition in such ways as creating a folder with your most up to date documents and a list of upcoming deadlines and projects.
Keeping things private. You’ve no doubt heard about over the top ways that disgruntled or combative employees have left their jobs in very public ways -- but these are not stories to emulate. First and foremost, you should refrain from sharing the news of your impending exit on social media.
If you’ve found a new position, only share the news with the appropriate supervisor and refrain from sharing the news with coworkers or friends. Even if you were terminated or left under harsh circumstances, take the high road when discussing your tenure with a former employer. With many employers now checking social media postings as part of background checks, it’s best to stay above board both on and offline.
Don’t s†éál. It may seem obvious, but many employees think that when leaving a job, it’s harmless to keep a few mementos. However, this sort of behavior can be interpreted as theft.
(The aim of these endless simple rules is to make life better. We can pay close attention to our manners. Etiquette matters. It’s a simple and comprehensible language of mutual respect.)
-QueenCee
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(Yung sa dining etiquette tho. Naalala ko yung activity namin noong January sa TLE. :/ )