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Be respectful and kind towards people
It’s not about respecting this one person you like, it’s about respecting everyone. I knew respect is the most important thing in a relationship, so I started to respect other human beings around me. I tried to help people out if I could. It made me feel more of a man, when people around me would appreciate me for my kind habits.
Be Open to people
Yes, be open, be open to discussions and people, don’t be an introvert. Don’t be passive nor be over bearing, listen when you need to listen. Try to let people in your life and accept decisions that other people take, don’t push or trick people into feeling something that they don’t. Be happy for people and compliment them whenever you feel like, it builds a sense of trust and security.
Be prepared to hang around as a friend
Even if she turned you down, don’t block her out of your life. Stick around as a good friend and keep trying. (No she will not friend zone you, she knows your intentions)
Don’t Brag about your previous encounters with women
It’s okay if it didn’t work out with this girl you really liked. People make mistakes and they change with time. Don’t hold someone’s past against them. Respect the privacy of your past relationships for the love you both once shared.
Meet commitments
Be on time, if you say that you will be there at nine, be there by nine. A man should stick to his word, don’t make a commitment if you think you won’t be able to fulfil it.
Remember special days
Even if you guys aren’t seeing each other, it shouldn’t stop you from sending her a birthday wish. She will find it an extremely sweet gesture.
It’s okay if she wants a financially stable man
I have seen many women financially supporting their husbands and families. It’s okay if a woman wants her man to be independent; it doesn’t necessarily mean that she is a gold digger. I started to work hard; I became financially stable and had better understanding of life.
Yes, being confident and trying those, ‘how to woo a girl’ tricks would work initially; but what about the long run? Chivalry shouldn’t be done in order to ‘get her to go out with you’. Sooner or later, she would know you played her when you reveal ‘the hidden douche in you’. Relationships are important to people and they should be dealt with the respect they deserve. This time, when I asked her out, she said yes!
Keep in mind people, I was inspired to be the right man, by the girl of my dreams. I didn’t to any of this because I was inclined to do so by some code of conduct. I was and will always be human. How can you expect to be with a good girl when you are not even a good human?
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Be respectful and kind towards people
It’s not about respecting this one person you like, it’s about respecting everyone. I knew respect is the most important thing in a relationship, so I started to respect other human beings around me. I tried to help people out if I could. It made me feel more of a man, when people around me would appreciate me for my kind habits.
Be Open to people
Yes, be open, be open to discussions and people, don’t be an introvert. Don’t be passive nor be over bearing, listen when you need to listen. Try to let people in your life and accept decisions that other people take, don’t push or trick people into feeling something that they don’t. Be happy for people and compliment them whenever you feel like, it builds a sense of trust and security.
Be prepared to hang around as a friend
Even if she turned you down, don’t block her out of your life. Stick around as a good friend and keep trying. (No she will not friend zone you, she knows your intentions)
Don’t Brag about your previous encounters with women
It’s okay if it didn’t work out with this girl you really liked. People make mistakes and they change with time. Don’t hold someone’s past against them. Respect the privacy of your past relationships for the love you both once shared.
Meet commitments
Be on time, if you say that you will be there at nine, be there by nine. A man should stick to his word, don’t make a commitment if you think you won’t be able to fulfil it.
Remember special days
Even if you guys aren’t seeing each other, it shouldn’t stop you from sending her a birthday wish. She will find it an extremely sweet gesture.
It’s okay if she wants a financially stable man
I have seen many women financially supporting their husbands and families. It’s okay if a woman wants her man to be independent; it doesn’t necessarily mean that she is a gold digger. I started to work hard; I became financially stable and had better understanding of life.
Yes, being confident and trying those, ‘how to woo a girl’ tricks would work initially; but what about the long run? Chivalry shouldn’t be done in order to ‘get her to go out with you’. Sooner or later, she would know you played her when you reveal ‘the hidden douche in you’. Relationships are important to people and they should be dealt with the respect they deserve. This time, when I asked her out, she said yes!
Keep in mind people, I was inspired to be the right man, by the girl of my dreams. I didn’t to any of this because I was inclined to do so by some code of conduct. I was and will always be human. How can you expect to be with a good girl when you are not even a good human?
relrulescom
