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Realization
The hardest part about getting over your You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. is realizing that he doesn't like you the same way that you like him. The realization might be the first step, but it's the hardest step to take. While you may like the guy, while you may even You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. him, if he doesn't feel the same, you can't force it – no matter how much you try to.

Admit That You Have a Crush
Once you've come to the realization that he might not have the same feelings you have for him, you've got to admit that you have a crush. I know it can be hard girls, but even if you just stand in front of your mirror and admit to yourself that you have a You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now., you'd be amazed how much that makes a difference and how it is almost like extracting the poison. Give it a try.

Accept the Situation
You've admitted that you have a crush and even though it's far from the ideal situation, try to make steps towards accepting the situation. Try not to be stubborn about it or be in denial of what's really going on. Perhaps the two of you aren't as compatible as you first thought. You might even find later on that it was a good thing that your You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. never turned into more.

Don't Take It Personal
Just because he doesn't have feelings for you, it is not something that you can take personal. Learning to get over your You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. might not be easy, but it isn't a personal indictment. A guy can't control his feelings just like you can't control your feelings. Imagine if a You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. likes you, but you have absolutely no feelings for him – don't take it personally.

Be Honest with Yourself
Getting over your crush is never easy, but you have to be honest with yourself. You've got to be upfront with yourself about your feelings and how you are affected by your You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. not returning your them. Once you are honest with yourself about how hurt you are, it's easier to process and easier to heal.

Don't Dwell on It
Do you have a support group that you can go to? Do you have a You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. that you can talk to? Do you have someone that you can turn to that will keep you from dwelling on the fact that you'll never 'get' your crush? That needs to be a focus, girls; you don't want to dwell on something that will never happen and this is a necessary tip on getting over your You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..

Don't Be Angry
Why are you angry? Because he doesn't think of you the same way? That isn't a reason, girls, While it might be hard to admit that, you've got to make sure that your emotions stay stable and calm. You don't want to be angry or mad at your You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. just because he doesn't return the feelings that you have. After all, you can't control who you like!

Don't Be Angry
Why are you angry? Because he doesn't think of you the same way? That isn't a reason, girls, While it might be hard to admit that, you've got to make sure that your emotions stay stable and calm. You don't want to be angry or mad at your You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. just because he doesn't return the feelings that you have. After all, you can't control who you like!

Avoid Thinking about Him
One of the You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. to get over your crush is to stop thinking about it. I know it might be hard, but when you are thinking about him, you've got to dwell on something else. Avoid thinking about him at all costs. Pick up a hobby that you've never done before, talk to your You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now., get into a support group with your family. Keep yourself busy and you'll be able to get over your You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. more quickly.

Don't Keep Hoping
Finally girls, the last way to get over your You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. that we're going to discuss is not to keep hoping. He might never, ever change his feelings and you've got to be prepared for that. Just let your hope go and you'll feel a lot better over You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..

Keep Your Distance
It's also a good idea to keep your distance and avoid You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. while you're trying to get over your crush. You might not be able to completely avoid seeing or running into your You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. if you're friends, work at the same place or go to the same school. But, you can try to make yourself less available and focus on yourself. If he/she doesn't understand, explain that you need some You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. on your own right now.

Seek Support
One of the You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. to try and get over any difficult situation is to seek support. Do you have a friend who has gone through a similar situation and you want her advice? Or maybe you just need someone to listen. Either way, talk to your You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. and family members. They can help you sort through your feelings and even offer some sound advice.

Give Yourself Time
Getting over a crush isn't easy and no one, including yourself, shouldn't expect you to get over it quickly. Give yourself time to be sad. Everyone deals with difficult situations differently and it might take you more time than your You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. to get over it. While you don't want to dwell on the situation for a prolonged period of You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now., don't expect yourself to be "back to normal" too quickly.
 
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