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(TIPS) How to FIGHT right.

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by TeenMOM, Feb 20, 2016.

  1. Seven ground rules that will actually make your relationship stronger.

    1. DO AWAY WITH THESE WORDS.
    - "We need to talk." Nothing good usually follows that sentence, especially if you say it with major attitude. It will immediately put him on edge. Instead, start by letting him know you want to discuss because of the way it made you feel.

    2. ACT LIKE YOU WANT TO HEAR HIS SIDE.
    - Your body language says more than you think. Sit up straight, keep your hands clasped to avoid them flailing around, look him in the eye, and nod to show you are listening. "if you're talking with your arms crossed, leaning back, or scowling, he will be on the defense from the start," says Rachel Dealto, author of flirt fearlessly.

    3. DITCH THE DALDAL.
    - "One of the biggest mistakes women make when they argue is the not knowing when to stop talking," says relationship expert Michelle R. Callahan, Ph.D. "Women usually have a laundry list of concerns and sometimes you can't address everything in one conversation." Take a breath and and let him get a word in. Really listen to what he is saying. If you keep talking over each other, you won't resolve anything.

    4. DROP THE DRAMA.
    - Don't scream, throw things, or get hysterical. It just makes you seem irrational, or, even worse, unstable. Just walk away and return after you've calmed down. You have a better chance of getting your point across if he doesn't think you're crazy.

    5. ADMIT WHEN HE MAKES A GOOD POINT.
    - Believe it or not, he's not always wrong. Tell him that you understand where he is coming from in a certain points. This will definitely catch him off guard and make him feel like he should return the favor.

    6. WATCH THE WATERWORKS.
    - It's okay to cry during an argument sometimes. However, breaking into tears all the time sends the wrong message. " He'll feel like you're acting and using your tears to manipulate him," says, Dr. Callahan.

    7. KEEP YOUR FIGHT FROM GETTING WORSE.
    - If you're close to saying something you will absolutely regret, stop talking and count to ten instead. "Tell him the conversation is going in a bad direction and that you both need a time out. If he ignores you and keeps going, just keep quiet," says Dr. Callahan. Remember that at least one of you has to act like an Ad∩lt.

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  2. m4rg4ux

    m4rg4ux Enthusiast Established

    thanks, helpful information:)
     
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  3. SpectaculairE

    SpectaculairE Addict Established

    Ganda nung 4. Thanks :)
     
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  4. You're welcome. :)

    You're welcome. :)
     
  5. m4rg4ux

    m4rg4ux Enthusiast Established

    ask ko lang po nagko-crochet po kayo tlga? :)
     
  6. Hi m4rg4uxm4rg4ux sorry for the late response. Yup! crocheter po ako. Why?
     
  7. m4rg4ux

    m4rg4ux Enthusiast Established

    wala nman po.. sa tv ko lang kasi nakikita yun mga nag ko-chochet e.. hehe
     
  8. ron13315

    ron13315 Grasshopper Established

    nice, galing ng tips
     
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  9. I wish everyone would do this.
     
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  10. aqui09

    aqui09 Honorary Poster Established

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