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Trivia Relationship with a liar/cheater

Discussion in 'Lifestyle & Healthy Living' started by Yours, Jan 11, 2016.

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    1. Liars and cheaters do not trust
    A liar or a cheater is always apprehensive and is always trying to find something that will help them not trust the person. As they know what people are capable of. Trust will always be the point of dispute for a very long time if you are in a relationship with them.

    2. The will always act to be the victim
    Liars and cheaters have a bad habit of self pity. They always treat their pain to be the greater pain. Even if you fall off a tree and break the bones in your body, their pain of a mere knife cut will be more. Since such people are constantly trying to justify the fact that they lie, they are always finding reasons to help them advocate the case.

    Such people will always have bigger problem from you. At times when you are explaining a tragedy to such people they will gradually move the focal point of the relationship towards themselves.

    3. Liars and cheaters are always apprehensive
    Such people have so much to fight for. They have so much to hide that they are always apprehensive even when they go out for groceries. Simple plans will never be simple for the two of you. It could be anything, it could be a simple walk out in the park but it won’t be simple in any way. Either you didn’t ask them before choosing a park or you didn’t ask them hard enough so maybe you don’t want them to go which brings me to another point.

    4. They will Pick the most stupid fights
    This is a huge tell sign. It could be a tell sign for a lot of things though, like attention seekers would also do this.

    Liars and cheaters are always on the lookout for the reasons to fight, subconsciously. As they know, one day every lie of theirs will come out in the open. They subconsciously gather information that will help them portray themselves as the victim and all their actions justified after that is being done to them.

    5. Liars and cheaters are charmers
    Liars and cheaters are charmers and win over people easily. They will always be the life of the group. They make you feel special which they know matters to you the most because they have no limits when it comes to lying. They would tell you the most amazing and hopeful things about what you want to hear.
    6. Liars and cheaters have loopholes in their stories
    Since liars and cheaters are used to lying, they don’t mind adding a few lies here and there. This when you ask them about the same story, they will never tell the story the same because liars themselves don’t know which lie they said to someone. Such loopholes, if exposed or questioned, will always be welcome with an I-knew-you-don’t-trust-me fight. This only ends in you being the guilty one. So, be prepared.

    In short, when in a relationship with a liar or a cheater, be prepared to take the blame for the things you have done and the things you haven’t. As I mentioned before about the unhealthy and torturing relationship I had, it had been 4 years and we were still fighting over the fact that my display picture is too exposing and I am trying to attract the wrong kind of guys. At times, it was how I couldn’t give him time while taking care of my terminally ill parents. The fights became more and more damaging until I couldn’t take anymore.

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  2. EARZE

    EARZE PHC Contributor Established

    thanks for sharing boss.. (y)
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  3. derx

    derx El Vampiro Staff Member Moderator

    Hugot na hugot ah. :smuggrin: (y)
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  4. hahaha.. para masagot ang mga katanungan ng iba jan :p
  5. jjarongay

    jjarongay Forum Veteran Established

  6. youre welcome :)
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