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need your frank opinion, ideas, or comment...please be mature and be frank

Discussion in 'Off-Topic' started by janna1986, Dec 25, 2015.

  1. here is the problem guys... (hoping you could help us)
    my cousin was in love with a girl and because of that love it causes/produces a cute little baby girl(the baby is now 6 months old) the girl (the mother of the baby) and his aunt prevents my cousin ( the boy) to see his baby with out a clear reason.. even though they prevents my cousin to see his baby girl... (for your information guys my cousin is a good looking bachelor 24 of age and a responsible one)... he always make sure that the needs of his baby would be given accordingly to the best and fullest that it could be... (that's according to my cousin and i believe it)... if the baby's mother says that the baby run's out of milk or needed diaper or needed to be checkup (my cousin is as fast as a bullet train, or even faster by a lightning, and even don't hesitates nor think , he gives whatever his baby needs or whatever the mother of his baby says (but of course its for the baby needs only and not for a crazy girl like the mother of my cousin baby)

    whatever sacrifices that my cousin would do or has done... he never got the chance to see, or even to carry, or to hug or even kissed his baby girl because the aunt's of his mother's baby prevents him to do so... (they say that the girl's aunt was powerful woman at their place)

    my cousin is not used to this situation and because of this situation he was too stress , thinking of what should he must do just to get hold, hug or kiss his baby girl and even to be the mother of his baby if she would allow him (that's what my cousin stated).. my cousin was too stress and could even cause him insanity if he continues stressing himself...(according to his doctors and that was his mother told me)

    according to my cousin's mom. they've done the best diplomatic and peaceful thing to resolve the situation and even give up everything just to get hold of my cousin's baby...

    i think one of the biggest conflict/problem between the girl and my cousin is.... my cousins family is a bonafide IGLESIA NI CRISTO and the girl's family is catholic... and the girls uncle (girl's aunt brother) was a roman catholic priest... (but even that's the situation, the family of my cousin still willing to do whatever it takes just to resolve the conflict/problem... (no doubt that my cousin could give his baby not just a good or a very good future but the very best of the best future that any parents would want for their baby's/child)

    if you're saying that get the baby in a harsh/ïllêgâl way (or something like that) i don't think that my cousin's family would do that (eventhough they're capable in doing such thing and would do it in flying colours if i may say so) my cousin's family is god fearing (ako din ganun), a very very down to earth people and would forgive and understand you instantly even if you're the one who had sinned to them.., (that's how good my cousin's family is... even if they were too influential, they wont use it against someone... mas gugustuhin pa nilang isacrifice sarili nila kesa gamitin ang ifluence nila) yes, my cousin family has something... (i would say that they are the luckiest of all luckiest people who receive the blessings when god distributed it..:))

    and finally, to tell you the truth nakaka-stress talaga, ive been out of suggestion or advice even if i did not give one... (hehehe) masyado kasi complicated ang situation ng cousin ko and i would say na baka naman baliw yung girl and aunt ng girl to turn down my cousin... ( my cousin's family is too wealthy that even i couldn't explain how wealthy they are, and of course if they're wealthy, they're influential too, wealth and influence will always be together will be partners if you do believe what i've said) and onething more i'm sure (believe it or not guys) they are the influential and wealthy kind people that their foot touches the ground... sobrang bait nila... and know what i think? if that girl say's that they give up all the wealth they have and give it to her in exchange for my cousin baby, they would, but i think tatay and nanay (that's what my cousin's parents wants me to call them) would not give it up for that cary girl and to his aunt, but would give it all to the baby)...

    please help me mga kaphcorner.net to this situation... baliw na nga ako, lalo pa po ako nabaliw ng dumating family ng cousin ko and sabihin nila problema nila sakin... (they're on vacationat my place na sila din lang nagbnigay sakin:))...

    you're suggestion or opinion or comment would be very much appreciated mga ka-phcorner.net)

    salamat po in advance sa mga nagtyagang magbasa at nagbigay ng opinions/suggestion/comments...

    please be frank and serious to your opinions, advices or comments... salamat po ulit
    your ideas, opinions, comments, or suggestions is much appreciated,,,,
     
    Last edited: Dec 25, 2015
  2. Hmm, idaan nlang yan sa korte, haha. Pero yeah, seriously, may karapatan naman yng cousin mo so kung idadaan yan sa korte, may pag-asa :)
     
  3. pero according to the law children with age 7 below will be at mothers custody po ata? (not so sure, but its something like that po)

    waley din di din po makukuha ng pinsan ko baby nya...:(

    thank you for sharing your idea sir...
    good morning and merry christmas
     
  4. Yes, ganon cguro, pero as far as I know may karapatan naman ang mga tatay bisitahin yng anak nila ^-^
     
  5. yep may karapatan nga po...
    pero aanhin mo po ang karapatan na yun kung tintago nila yung bata?
     
  6. Kung ayaw ng kabilang partido, mahihirapan talaga siya. wala bang kasunduan ?

    dapat kasi meron silang kasunduan
     
  7. ako nga din po hirap mag-isip ng gagawin e...
    ayaw po ng tita ni girl...
    and wala po kasunduan...
    noong buntis pa po yung girl okay pa daw po sila...
    pero pagkapanganak ng girl bgla na lang nag-iba ang ihip ng hangin,,,
     
  8. Kaya nga. Mas okay tlaga kung may legal procedures na
     
  9. serokun

    serokun Addict Established

    Is your cousin caught atleast a single glimpse of his baby ? What if hindi sa kanya yun or wala pala, just my opinion
     
  10. kung dadaanin po kasi legal proceudre... as of now 6months palang yung baby...
    tiyak dun lang sa girl mapupunta custody ng bata...

    di ko po maintindihan kung bakit ayaw ng girl sa pinsan ko,,,
    yung girl na yun po sana will b the queen with her own castle e...
    di ko maintindhan kung bakit or kung ano reason ng babae...
    wala naman magiging problema e.. lalo na po sa financial...
    guwapo naman pinsan ko... and even 5x richer than that girls aunt...

    yes , not only one glimpse but a lot of glimpse did my cousin d0 to his baby...

    the worst thing is, only the glimpse thing is what he do during the girl and the baby was on the hospital...

    the baby by that time was on the nursery room...:)
     
  11. guys eto yung advise ko sa cousin ko and i don't know if its the right thing to do...

    sabi ko sa cousin ko hayaan muna niya yung baby sa girl (pero he'll continue the support) and instead of thinking what's the next thing to happen, continue his life... take good care of himself... concentrate on his businesses... why? how he can support his baby if he got sick or got crazy because of thinking too much the things that could only be possibly happen if time would allow... he should or must concentrate on his business for him to be able to continue to support his baby...
    let him wait for the right time... but always be ready so that when the right time comes he knows what he must do...
    for now its too early to take legal action his baby is only 6months, only failure will he achieve if he insist or force the sitaution...
    stop thinking too much... enjoy life, because life is too short... but always be ready because he will not know when will be the right time...
    the most important is he should bëâr in mind that their will always be a tomorrow to come... time changes everything....

    ok po ba payo ko?
    isa na lang problema... kung paano ko ito ipapaintindi sa kanya:(
    dumudugo kasi ilong ko everytime na nag-uusap kami...
     
  12. serokun

    serokun Addict Established

    If wala naman personal grudge yung family ng girl sa cousin mo he should just support his child financially , overtime he will gain trust of the girl's family
     
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