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Trivia Love In Your 20s

Discussion in 'Love' started by Yours, Feb 2, 2016.

  1. 12 Reasons You Shouldn’t Be Too Serious About Love In Your 20s

    Your twenties are meant to be one of the most exciting decades of your life. Above all, it is a time to learn. It is supposed to be an incredible time characterized by self-discovery and experimentation. It is not a time to limit yourself by rushing to serious decisions that could impact the rest of your life. More specifically, it is not a time to focus on love or finding “the one”.

    With the case of love, your twenties should be a time to explore both yourself and your preferences in specific types of partners. Ultimately, your twenties are a period of immense trial and error. Your twenties are a key stage that prepare you for your 30’s and 40’s, the time when you are mature enough to truly prosper.

    Here are 12 reasons why you shouldn’t be too serious about love in your 20’s:

    1. Love requires patience. This comes after your twenties
    In your twenties, you have all the time in the world. However, one thing all young adults seem to lack in their twenties is patience. It’s a product of growing up in the Information Age. We don’t want to wait. We want it right now.

    Unfortunately, love doesn’t work this way. It takes time for a relationship to grow and for chemistry to develop. Love is all about mutual growth and chemistry. The only way you can experience this is through patience.

    2. Love requires dedication
    When you seriously love someone, you need to be all in. This requires responsibility and dedication for both partners. If we’re being honest here, your twenties are a time for you to have fun and explore.

    Who wants to cut the fun in their twenties short? Some people do that and often find themselves unhappy and wondering “what if”.

    3. Love often finds you
    They say that love tends to come from unexpected places. If this is the case, why not just live life to the fullest and worry about love later?

    4. Love materializes when you are ready
    We’ve already established that love requires patience and dedication. We’ve also established that these often develop after your twenties. Therefore, it’s safe to say that you are simply not ready for love in your twenties. Be patient it will find you when it finds you.

    5. Your twenties are a time to find yourself
    Living life to the fullest and learning as much as possible requires an enormous commitment to yourself. Quite frankly, you need to be selfish if you want to find yourself. This is an enormous trade off because selfishness has no place in the dynamic of love. You and your partner must be selfless.

    6. Your twenties are a time to explore
    How can you know if your partner is what’s best for you if you settled down with them too soon? You can’t. If you choose to take love too seriously and settle down with one partner in your twenties, you are essentially rolling the dice. Maybe your partner is a great match. But maybe not.

    Why not spend time exploring and wait so that you can make better long-term decisions on your love life a few years down the road?

    7. Your twenties are a time to go all out and live life to the fullest
    Your twenties are a time when your youthful energy and health are at an all time high. This is the time to live it up. Try new things. Be adventurous. Go out and see the world. This is the time to do it. You don’t want to become another one of those stories of someone who wakes up at age 35 and realizes that they settled down too soon.

    8. Love requires time
    You are supposed to be living your life in your twenties. There simply isn’t time to fully dedicate yourself to someone if you are busy seeing the world and doing the things you want to do. For instance, how can you build a relationship if you want to take time to find yourself and also travel the world? You can’t.

    9. Love is serious business
    Love is a serious thing. However, your twenties are a time to let loose and have fun. The time to make serious love decisions should be saved for when you are fully matured. For instance, would it be fair to have someone commit to you if you yourself were not all in? No, it would not be fair.

    10. You will be “better” later on in life
    All of the experiences and self-discovery during your twenties will pay off because they will translate in to a better individual in later decades. You will be more experienced because you will be seasoned by life.

    Ultimately, you will be better and will truly be able to offer something special to that lucky someone.

    11. If you take the time to enjoy your twenties, you will be more stable later on in life
    Let’s compare two people. Person A lived life to the fullest in their twenties. Eventually, they settled down with someone in their thirties. Person B decided to settle down with someone right away. We can probably assume that Person A is satisfied because they see themselves as having lived a full life and are stable. In contrast, we can probably assume that Person B might have some questions might still have that desire to go out and see the world.

    12. Life is not a sprint. It’s a marathon
    You should not be in any rush to go through the various stages in life, especially love. You will meet someone when you are ready and this often means when you are at your best and are on your life’s path.
    lifehack.org
     
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  2. dami ako experience sa 20 ko hay sana maulit muli:love:


    fallower na ba ako sa post mo hahaha:hilarious::hilarious:
     
  3. hahaha. malapit na din ako mag babye sa 20s ko. ayoko ng balikan yon :p salamat sa pagfollow hehe
     
  4. im 24 when shotgun married bwahahahah
     
  5. so ano natutunan niyo ngayon? hehe
     
  6. ill never regret it.. after all i have a stable job and shes my Ma'am at my previous work hahahhaha
     
  7. hahaha. kaya pala no regrets. kung sa huli kayo din naman nagkatuluyan payts :p
     
  8. hahah kami nga din secret marriage lang muna kasi mas bata ako sa kanya den nalaman na lang ng mga ka workmate ko nung magpalit na sya ng surname sa ID and sa system.. hahahah asar talo lang sila
     
  9. pang mmk ang story mo frind kaya pala may diary ka :D
     
  10. hahaha di ah.. sabi nga ng mrs ko ang corny ko nga daw kasi nga ang tanda ko na may diary pa ko and pinakita ko sa kanya laman ng locker room ko sa work siguro mga 30 na notebook na naubos ko since highschool hehehe..
    ewan ko basta naging hobby ko na sya na isulat nangyayri sa buhay ko..hahahha
     
  11. Ipa mmk mo na yan kasi frind hehehe!
     
  12. ngeee... ano kalokohan yan...
     
  13. kaya nga ayoko talaga ng may bf na kasama sa ofis kasi marami pakialamera. pati boss ko nakikialam na. hay naku :p
     
  14. hehehe parehas kami nag resign dun and tumigil na sya mag work ako na lang hehehe
     
  15. hindi kami nagresign. patuloy pa rin kami. sayang kasi kung aalis lang ng dahil sa kanila. :)
     
  16. di naman po dahil sa kanila it happens lang na mahina na kasi Electronics Company nung year na yun you Global Crisis daw"
     
  17. Ganon naman pala hehe

    youre welcome :)
     
  18. EARZE

    EARZE PHC Contributor Established

    Thanks for Sharing Boss.. (y)
     
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  19. You're welcome bossing :)
     
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